Wednesday 18 November 2009

Revisiting....

Since having started blogging again just recently, I have been reading back on some of my old posts and marvelling at how much has changed in such a relatively short time. Its amazing to see how my perspective has changed on events, how my hopes and dreams have changed and how even small things have morphed into something completely different. This post  ,for example, was inspired by a blog prompt that was shared on UKScrappers - an event that no longer happens due to people going their seperate ways. The topic? Handbag envy... lol.

What a change three years can make! I'm still a jeans girl, but the trainers have gone out the window. Crocs, Birkenstocks, walking boots and a lovely pair of leather mules are in. My pockets are currently empty, and have been for quite a while now. Mostly because they've been well and truly been replaced by.... a handbag! Oh My gosh! Having two kids now I find I have far too many things to carry, especially as there is usually a baby who also needs carrying at the same time. So, its easier to have a bag hanging off my arm while the baby sits on my hip, the keys are carried in the same hand and the 4 year old is being controlled with the other hand. Yes, I've become SUPER-MUM! Well, not quite... What I am tho', is a mum who now does school runs and toddler group on the same day followed by baby swimming lessons the day after and various other groups throughout the week. Not forgetting the nursery open day, parent-teacher conferences, play dates, birthday parties and school concerts.

The contents of my pockets are still present... the bank cards that used to sit in my pocket now line themselves up neatly in my wallet; the reciepts overflow and the change keeps escaping - but the wallet is being used. However, wallets dont fit conveniently into pockets - so into the handbag it goes. The mobile phone has also migrated to the handbag too, except now I can never find it. Somehow it always escapes from the specially designed mobile phone pocket (which was my whole inspiration for buying this particular handbag!) and makes its way down to the bottom of the bag. And its never in the section I'm looking in when its ringing, so consequently I usually find it a few seconds after it has transferred my caller to voicemail. The keys are usually to be found at the bottom of the bag too, usually making mad attempts at scratching the mobile phone's screen or grabbing at the fabric lining of the bag in a ,usually, successful attempt at ripping it all to shreds. The one thing though that really has changed, and which really sparked the purchase of a handbag... is the PDA. Yup, I've gone all electronic. My poor mushed baby-brain can no longer cope with having to remember all the appointments on its own and I have given up and resorted to using an electronic nagging device to remember it all for me. Its very handy as it keeps all my appointments, contact details, birthday reminders, notes, shopping lists etc. all in one handy place and it beeps at me when I need to remember things. Well, it should do.... unless you let the battery go completely flat as I did last week! In which case, you will find that it loses every last piece of data you had ever entered into it and you are left with a useless lump of plastic that has reverted to default factory settings, thus making you miss one very important appointment, several birthdays and leaves you having to rewrite your whole Christmas list. Unfortunately this wonderful piece of technology is too large for pockets which means that I ended up buying a handbag... and finding that actually, I can make it work for me!  Its just all the stuff inside the handbag that overwhelms me now!!

6 comments:

  1. On 18 November 2009 Fun Mama - Deanna said: Thanks for the laugh! I struggle to find things in my purse/handbag too. I started using a camera bag instead. It keeps my electronics safe and nothing gets lost. It just isn't as cute as I would like.

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  2. On 18 November 2009 Deb said: Wait til you have to share the handbag space with your husbands 'essentials'. When we go out now, he doesn't have room in his pockets for glasses, wallet, phone, car keys etc so guess who ends up carrying it all for him?! So much easier when he could just put a few banknotes in his back pocket and that was him done for the evening!

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  3. On 18 November 2009 Tracy said: Sounds just like me, only I have a mixture of the jeans pocket and the handbag lol

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  4. On 18 November 2009 Sarah Pitts said: I gladly managed to find a bag that helped solve some of those problems, one with loads of pockets and compartments! Jonathan has a all singing all dancing blackberry phone that should prompt him when something is showing on his google calander, but alas he has reverted back to the NON electronic nagging device that is ME!!!! I did tell you that one day you would find a handbag an essential item!

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  5. On 18 November 2009 Denise said: Oh wow, this all sounds so familiarlol,great post

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  6. On 20 November 2009 Andy said: Hehe! Isn't it amazing how we change so much once we become Mommies?

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